Comment of the Day: “I Am Increasingly Reaching The Conclusion That We Can’t Trust Anyone…”

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I also have reached a conclusion about trusting anyone. For a number of years, I trusted this site to provide a forum for a solid discussion of important ethical issues. (The privacy violation several years ago followed by an apology probably isn’t relevant here.)

Now, here, quantity defeats quality and unrecognized confirmation bias rules. We begin to examine an issue, and suddenly, there are many more issues that have overwhelmed the sock drawer, most of which can be ignored, but are not ignored, either because they are easy targets, or because there is an obligation to confront. We raise a legitimate objection, and it is immediately dismissed so we can move on and lambaste the next blatherer.

A memorable moment from my second career as a high school teacher — after one of the all too frequent breaks from working with kids: “Did you miss us?” My response, “Just as much as I missed you.”

This is not high school. I truly miss the interaction with kids whose minds were much more questioning than assertive. There is no doubt; we missed each other, mostly, and I still miss them, because they were willing to consider other viewpoints.

So, I’m on a break from here. I’ll look in occasionally to decide if I’m on a break, or if I am retired from this site which now seems to me to be mostly, and fatally, one-sided.

7 thoughts on “Comment of the Day: “I Am Increasingly Reaching The Conclusion That We Can’t Trust Anyone…”

  1. This is not high school. Praise Allah! I went to high school and taught high school. High school kids are empty vessels. They know absolutely nothing. Some come from good home situations, other come from rough home situations. I’ve analogized the EA commentariat to a good undergraduate level discussion section. Super enjoyable. As much intellectual fun as I’ve had since graduating from college. Oftentimes, the EA commentariat migrates into intellectual combat, much like the practice of law. So what. People are competitive.

    I truly miss the interaction with kids whose minds were much more questioning than assertive. Again, they were empty vessels and therefore receptive to anything because all you had to do was pour it in. Something I refused to do. Doing so would have been educational malpractice.

    There is no doubt; we missed each other, mostly, and I still miss them, because they were willing to consider other viewpoints. I.e., they were readily manipulable. I taught English and The Old Testament. The only question I had to ask the kids was, “What’s the author saying?” The material could take it from there.

  2. Here’s Johnny wrote:

    We raise a legitimate objection, and it is immediately dismissed so we can move on and lambaste the next blatherer.

    This is called, “debate.” Not every objection is legitimate in the eyes of every person. And yes, sometimes those rejecting the objection are simply blinded to its legitimacy by bias.

    But calling a debating point “legitimate” as if it were holy writ is not an ethical position — points must be defended, or they might be presumed invalid whatever their merits. And on any blog of this sort, there are going to be people who disagree with you because you are you, and their default position is opposition. Again, that’s part of it.

    Your complaint here, in my view, is invalid on many levels but the most fundamental of which is the implication that you get to judge legitimacy and nobody may challenge your judgment. As your complaint clearly indicates, this strategy has virtually no chance here.

    This is not high school. I truly miss the interaction with kids whose minds were much more questioning than assertive.

    Having never taught, I will accept this premise as true for the sake of argument because of your experience. I’m sure it goes without saying, though, that this is a place for adults, and many adults have formed very strong opinions about the subjects at issue. Wishing they would show childlike curiosity is not only a strange position, but foolishly naive. No matter the merits of such a questioning attitude, the real world, and not just this limited window into it, makes your wish unlikely to be fulfilled.

    So, I’m on a break from here. I’ll look in occasionally to decide if I’m on a break, or if I am retired from this site which now seems to me to be mostly, and fatally, one-sided.

    It’s no bad thing to come and go, I know I do it a lot. There are lots of things I like to do, and debating on the Internet is not in the top three.

    Having said that, your point about this place being fatally one-sided is, in my opinion, incorrect. Jack writes a number of observations that I disagree with, sometimes strongly. Most often, I don’t feel strongly enough about it to write anything because I know I will have to engage in a protracted debate, which is only fair. Bottom line — I am too lazy to defend my position, and on here you must; it is not optional.

    But that’s just me. In my view, though, your claim that this place is one-sided is simply a biased position that ignores the facts, and in my opinion you are being thin-skinned and petulant in this comment. That is a poor combination for a current events/opinion blog.

    • This is not high school. I truly miss the interaction with kids whose minds were much more questioning than assertive.

      My wife likes to remind me that when determining whether I’m truly funny and likeable, I do not get to count the people to whom I pay a salary.

      It drastically affects my analysis, unfortunately.

  3. Israel has not only a right but an obligation to end Hamas.

    There are 7 millions Arabs and 7 millions of Jews (Israelis) within the present area comprising Israel. And no one of all of them is going anywhere. So, many Jews of the Diaspora, and some perhaps in Israel (certainly not many) begin to propose that the only solution for modern Israel is to incorporate everyone now in that land into one state. The corresponding example, if indeed it shall be referred to, is South Africa: forced by the international pressure of the entire world to end the apartheid arrangement — seen as ‘utterly evil’ and etc. — world-opinion brought it about. What I find curious is that such an idea, and such a solution, is immediately taken as ‘impossible’ and also as ridiculous right from the start. (The concept of a Jewish state is, naturally, deeply problematic, as is “Jewish identity’ based, strictly as it is, on race-identity

    (And I speak as one … though I definitely do not longer ‘identify’).

    I am unsure who grants the *right* that you refer to, it certainly could not be the Supreme Being, yet you present it as an absolute from which there can be no detraction. I am not complaining about your certainty, just noticing. (It occurs to me that you might be speaking very limitedly of *Hamas* specifically but I rather imagine you are speaking of all opposition to Israel (?) and possibly the political solution I am outlining here. 

    The way that Israel has developed has certainly been strange and confusing, but beyond any question ethically complex and also involving criminality. And getting clear about right and wrong (about the entire project) is not anything easy. But there are some analyses (and by notable Israelis I should say) who examine the question of *rights* from an angle wider than the one you seem to take. 

    Presently, and according to varied analyzers, Israel is a deeply troubling problem and it has also deeply embroiled the US in extremely consequential ethical issues.

    • The right to self-defense is nearly universal.

      Suppose Native Americans began launching rockets from reservations into nearby American towns and cities. Americans would be screaming for the U.S. government to stop them, right? Does the United States have the right to exist, even if, as Billie Eilish pointed out , we’re all on stolen land (and so is, apparently, Billie Eilish’s house)? Do we have the right to defend ourselves against terrorism, especially unremitting terrorism?

      The nation of Israel has the right to exist. This is a right that most of its neighbors refuse to acknowledge and to which the U.N. only pays lip service. It abandoned the occupied territories for twenty years before the 10/7 attack by Hamas which has demonstrated that it will not stop attacking Israelis while, at the same time, courting world sympathy for the casualties it caused itself.

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