Here’s a pet peeve: when I forget what day it is. Since I work every day of the week and most evenings and no longer have anyone living with me in this huge house, I frequently lose track. Today was an example.
Steven Mintz, “the Ethics Sage,” has a post on his blog listing his “pet peeves.” Boy, he isn’t annoyed by nearly as many things as I am, and all most none of them are particularly momentous. Here’s his list:
10. Leaving the toilet seat up [a shout out to women].
9. Turning without signaling. [what’s the turn signal for?].
8. Walking up a flight of stairs while using one’s cell phones; being oblivious to others [this can cause them to run into us].
7. Talking during movies or using one’s cell phones. [even though there is a message from the theater not to do so].
6. Looking at one’s cell phone while someone is talking [inconsiderate].
5. Cutting people off while driving [stupid; you can cause a serious accident],
4. Failing to share the arm rest on an airplane [thoughtless]. Taking one’s shoes (and socks!) off in an airplane [yuck].
3. Taking one’s shoe’s (and socks!) off in an airplane.
2. Being interrupted by another person while talking [rude! rude! behavior].
1. Using the catchphrase “with all due respect” [a subtle disrespect].
He writes in part, “I’ve been thinking a lot about them lately because I have experienced that increasingly people are inconsiderate; they don’t seem to be cognizant that even the little things can annoy others. I decided to write a blog on this subject because of my commitment to ethical behavior in our personal as well as professional lives. Being considerate of others is an ethical value because it shows caring and concern for the well-being of others. It moves us away from the constant pursuit of self-interest regardless of how it affects others.”
I can top that list with ease, including his #1: My least favorite catch phrase is a tie between “Everything happens for a reason” and “There are no coincidences.”
Another pet peeve is not getting many contribution to the open forums, but I can hardly complain when I open one 8 hours late.







