“The joke landed badly with sections of the studio audience and subsequently attracted criticism from celebrities, former SNL cast members and women under the mistaken impression that the gym was somewhere to exercise rather than submit their wardrobe choices for male approval.”
No, Gillis’s point, and he is accurate, is that many women at co-ed gyms dress to attract the male gaze while the official narrative is that they are just “expressing themselves.” “Observational humor” is supposed to reveal taboo truths.
Naturally a women’s gym-wear company was ready to capitalize on the controversy. Gymshark used it to promote the launch of a new line.“It’s been quite a week for women’s gym shorts, hasn’t it?” Noel Mack, Gymshark’s chief brand officer, said. “We’ve just launched Megan Does Gym, celebrating Megan Thee Stallion and a group of women who are unapologetically themselves, putting in the work and not asking anyone’s permission to take up space. All in gym shorts, of course. Meanwhile, there’s a whole debate happening about what women should and shouldn’t wear to the gym.”
What crap. Gillis didn’t say that women working out shouldn’t dress in clothes that would have prompted a request from management to cover up 20 years ago; he didn’t imply that he didn’t enjoy it either. Who said they had to ask “anyone’s permission to take up space”? Once again my brain flashed back to a spectacularly endowed young woman I worked with years ago who admonished a male colleague for directing his attention below her neck. He snapped, “If you don’t want men to look at your breasts, don’t dress like that,” referring to the low-cut, tight blouses she favored daily. The “I bet I can get you to sexually harass me”game is getting really old, and that is what the comic was referring to when he said, “You’re not allowed to look.”
In case you were wondering who that is above, it is Abby Labar, the MLB channel’s regular hostess of “Quick Pitch,” the nightly review of the day’s baseball games. Believe it or not, those are some of her more modest outfits. Yeah, she’s just “expressing herself” and not pandering to her show’s overwhelmingly male demographic. My late wife did a Danny Thomas spit-take when she first saw Labar’s attire. “They let her go on TV dressed like that?” Grace exclaimed. Labar posts these and similar photos on her Instagram account; the comments from her male followers, which describes almost all of them, are frequently disgusting. But she’s just expressing herself; surely she isn’t trying to appeal to men’s prurient interests.
Feminism is backsliding, ethically, morally and logically. The furies seeking to bury Gillis are the same ones who deny that Lucy Craig, the alleged Cornell rape victim, is accountable for her fate, whatever it was, in any way. Salon, a bible for the totalitarian left, used Gillis’s monologue to argue that laughing at such politically incorrect jibes is “dangerous.” “It’s not the controversy alone that’s of value to a show like SNL,” Salon intones, “it’s giving a platform to someone who’s more than willing to stand there, in front of a live audience, and verbalize the ugly things that people are afraid to say out loud . . . for now. But if they see enough people doing it, they may just be bold enough to do the same.”
Can’t have that! After all, Salon says, such individuals are “chomping at the bit for their chance to storm the Capitol.”
Truth is, the left is virulently opposed to masculinity. They would prefer that all straight men be neutered or that all men adopt homosexuality as a lifestyle. They are unconcerned with the prevalence of low T, low fertility rates, and the dearth of hetero marriages. It is fine with them that our birth rate is not at replacement, and falling. Normal male/female attraction is anathema to them. Their outrage over this joke is pure hypocrisy. I actually thought it was funny – an unusual SNL offering to skewer the left just a little. Apparently they cannot take a joke.
No, Gillis’s point, and he is accurate, is that many women at co-ed gyms dress to attract the male gaze while the official narrative is that they are just “expressing themselves.” “Observational humor” is supposed to reveal taboo truths.
Women at the gym may dress to attract the male gaze but not from every male. If the wrong man (unattractive to het) looks at her one second too long it may cause problems for him (complaints to gym management, public shaming).
Gym influencer Joey Swoll has many TikTok videos shaming women in tight clothes filming themselves, publishing the video at TikTok while shaming the men who walked into that video looking one second too long; these men might have looked wondering why somebody was filming at the gym!
At work you have a similar dynamic. Recently there was a TikTok generated trend of dressing up as an “Office Siren”, with women wearing clothes more suitable for a night club. This trend is getting people fired (e.g. dress code violations, risks for sexual harassment claims).
Shaming men for the “male gaze” and excusing women who dress inappropriately has undesirable social effects. Males are getting overly cautious around women, to protect themselves from creep shaming and claims of sexual harassment. At work this may mean that women have trouble receiving one-to-one mentoring from male colleagues who do not want to be alone with a women in one room. At the gym men do not volunteer to help a women who is stuck under gym equipment. A women gets a heart attack, and a man thinks twice about doing CPR or using an AED considering the potential for accusations. Men are getting afraid to ask a lady out in person, do to the potential for creep shaming and #MeToo accusations. You can lament about the dating crisis and the loneliness epidemic; shaming men for being and acting like males is one of the main causes.