The societal approval pendulum has swung so far away from physically punishing children that a formal spanking risks an accusation of child abuse. The Hawaii Supreme Court, in the case of Hamilton ex rel. Lethem v. Lethem, in which a retraining order was issued against a father accused of abusing his 15-year-old daughter, pronounced guidelines for determining what constitutes reasonable and moderate corporal punishment of a child by a parent, ruling that such punishment is reasonable (and a Constitutional right ) when..
- “…the parent’s discipline is reasonably related to the purpose of safeguarding or promoting the welfare of the minor,”
- The punishment properly takes into account the nature of the misbehavior,
- …the child’s age and size, and
- …the nature and propriety of the force used. Continue reading
