The astounding indifference to both human life and their duties displayed by the EMTs in yesterday’s incident in Brooklyn relates directly to the title of this blog. Why…why…didn’t their ethics alarms go off when they knew that a young, pregnant woman was fighting for her life a few yards away? What could have dulled their senses of duty and humanity, disabled them, to this extent?
This isn’t like the Mount Everest incident in 2006, when dozens of mountain climbers passed by a still-living companion who had collapsed in the snow, allowing him to die. The factors that interfered with their ethical instincts were clearly identifiable after the fact. They rationalized that he couldn’t be saved. Saving the man would have involved personal risk. Each climber thought another might step in; no one had any more responsibility than anyone else. And each had paid over $60,000 to reach Mount Everest’s peak, a prime achievement for their “bucket list.” I understand why this happened, even though it shouldn’t have.
The EMTs, however, are mystifying.
Or maybe not.
I was involved in an epiphanal incident several years ago, as I was getting breakfast at a local MacDonald’s notable mostly for its four-year streak of never getting a single one of my family’s orders right. Sunday mornings like this one typically attract a great many Virginians of all sizes, ages, nationalities and socio-economic categories who are seeking a breakfast that is cheap, or fast, or both.
I had been dispatched to this dreaded McDonald’s by my wife, to pick up breakfast for my son and his sleep-over guest. I was standing in a long and excruciatingly slow line (as usual, the crack employee taking orders was as unfamiliar with her employers’ menu as she was with the language being used to reference it…but never mind) when I noticed that a senior citizen, holding a full tray of food, was in distress. He was having great difficulty proceeding to the drink area, as he could barely walk. The man evidently needed a cane to move but couldn’t use it (it was hanging on his arm) because his hands were full. He was shuffling very shakily and slowly toward his destination, and seemed to be on the verge of taking a bad fall and spilling everything. Dozens of people swept past him on all sides, sometimes coming close to knocking him over. It was obvious that he was frightened, but nobody stopped to help him or asked if he needed help. Nobody even seemed to see him, though he was a large man and presented a very painful spectacle.
I wasn’t the most likely candidate to assist him. He was quite a distance away from me with many other customers moving between us; not only that, but I was finally about to be served, and stepping out of line ensured another long wait. But after a minute or so of watching the poor man, I realized that nobody else was going to do anything, at least in time to prevent a messy and even serious accident. I stepped out of line, walked over to him and asked if I could carry his tray to his table. “Oh, thank you so much!” he said with obvious relief. Sweat was pouring down his face. I told him I would get some cream and sugar for his coffee and take it to him so he could sit down.
Why didn’t anyone else help him before I did? The question bothered me then, and still bothers me. The McDonald’s was filled with kids, teenagers, Democrats, Republicans, local home-owners, at least one policeman, blacks, Hispanics, Asians, and many other elderly citizens. Surely the vast majority of them are basically good people, as most people are. Almost all of them have opinions concerning the “right thing to do” about abortion, health care, gay marriage, tax policy, illegal immigration and dozens of other subjects. Nevertheless, when they saw a fellow human being struggling and in need of assistance, it never occurred to any of them to take responsibility and help him. It is not as if I jumped to his assistance immediately; far from it. I assumed that it would be only a matter of a few seconds before several people were vying to come to his rescue, and was stunned that nobody did. I almost waited too long, in fact. He looked as if he was about to drop his tray by the time I broke out of line.
The incident at McDonald’s is distinguishable from the Brooklyn incident. Nobody’s life was in immediate peril, and nobody asked for help. Still, the EMTs had the ability to help a pregnant woman having a heart attack, and every single person in that McDonald’s had the ability to help an old man who was in peril, yet nobody did anything. The ethics alarms didn’t ring. I agree that the situation is more obviously outrageous when those refusing to help are in a profession dedicated to assisting others, but think about it: don’t all of us have just as clear a duty to help our fellow human beings when they need us? Nobody wanted to help the desperate senior because they wanted to have breakfast….just like the EMTs. The customers in that McDonald’s refused to do their duty…just like the EMT’s.
Why did I act? My ethics alarms went off, that’s all. One reason they went off was that I was in the middle of writing an article about ethics. I had an advantage the other MacDonald’s customers didn’t. I teach ethics every day, and this keeps my alarms in unusually good working order; I have to use them all the time, not just in my life, but in my work. I have no idea what my response to the elderly man’s plight would have been if I was simply practicing law, or running a conventional business. I have to admit to myself that it is possible I would have ignored him too.
We can condemn the EMTs, and we should. At the same time, their conduct is not as extreme and inexplicable as it seems. It is amazing how badly any of us can act when, for whatever reasons, our ethics alarms break down.