NO NO NO Children, Buzzfeed: You May NOT Do This, For It Is Creepy And Unethical

An unethical cascade...

An unethical cascade…

Before we commence, I do want to thank all of you are keeping me away from Hillary and Trump with more horrible ethics stories than I can keep up with.

Now that I’ve got that over with:

In what warped, sick universe is this kind of thing considered ethical?

Gad. It’s a veritable unethical cascade:

First, high school students takes surreptitious photos of their teachers while they should be, you know, getting educated…

Second, the students post the photos, which have not been consented to by the teachers, on Instagram…

Third, the students add salacious or otherwise provocative comments about the teachers as objects of their lust…

Fourth, the bottom-feeding website BuzzFeed picks up the photos and puts them in a feature called “13 Really Hot Teachers That Will Have You Begging For Detention.”…

How unethical is this? Let me count the ways…

1) It’s a Golden Rule violation. I know, when someone has warped ethics from being raised in a warped culture, the Golden Rule loses a lot of its value. These uncivilized whelps probably think it’s cool to have your face and form posted online for adolescent girls and gay guys to drool over, so, like what’s the big deal, dude? You’re all morons. The presumption is that normal human beings don’t want their photos posted online and commented upon without their consent.  I don’t want to open this can of worms, but it is always unethical to post someone else’s photo on Facebook unless they have at least given you advance consent. Unless the teachers already posted the photos on their own accounts and made them available, it’s unethical to publish them.

2) This uses  individuals as a public sex objects without their consent or knowledge, and is disrespectful, unfair, and wrong. The term for the conduct is creepshots, and is usually applied to women, because double standards reign. There is no difference, however, whether the victims are male or female.

3) For teachers, at a time when sexual predators in the profession appear to be running amuck, presenting a teacher to the web in this manner is a professional insult and an invitation to suspicion. Has the teacher doneanything to encourage student lust and inappropriate conduct? How do we know? A school administrator learning about such photos would be obligated to investigate.

4) Buzzfeed’s conduct is beneath contempt, as the conduct on sites in the Gawker empire frequently is. Says New Statesman about this episode:

“It’s generally considered poor form for a media organisation to obtain covertly taken pictures of ordinary citizens then post them online with sexualised captions.”

Generally? It’s ALWAYS, not just “poor form”–how I detest euphemisms and weasel words in ethics!—but outrageously unethical conduct to publish such photos without the express consent of the subject.

The New Statesman got a quote from one of the victims, Darren Deboer,  a high school teacher in Indiana, who said in part,

I was a bit taken back when I saw my picture. I wasn’t contacted, hadn’t given any consent….I went to a meeting, and in the course of three hours virtually everyone I’ve been in contact with knew about it! People in Florida, Indiana, Iowa, all over, were messaging me and texting me. After seeing the power of social media, I reflected a bit on how crazy this got. What if it were negative? What if it were embarrassing? I wouldn’t have been able to stop it.

My wife got a kick out of it though! She told me not to get a big head and take out the garbage….

In a classroom of teenagers you have awkward and embarrassing things done and said all the time. You have to be a professional and move on.  I have great students and know this type of thing will blow over….

Why thank you for helping to trivialize this breach of online respect and privacy, Mr. and Mrs. Deboer! I guess Darren is one of those teachers who gets that standards are changing, and this is a new era, and if you can’t beat them, join them. Like Buzzfeed.

Make the Deboers my 5) in the unethical cascade.  Rather than properly condemning the conduct (Students should be disciplined for conduct), the victims laugh it off, thus spurring acceptance and a degraded cultural standard.

This irresponsible reaction embraces  Rationalizations 1A. Ethics Surrender, or “We can’t stop it,” 8. The Trivial Trap  (“No harm no foul!”), 22. The Comparative Virtue Excuse: “There are worse things,”33. The Management Shrug: “Don’t sweat the small stuff!”, 38. The Miscreant’s Mulligan or “Give him/her/them/me a break!” and several more, but that’s too many already. No wonder the schools are raising a generation of sociopathic barbarians with the ethics alarms of Harry Reid.

Teach your students what’s wrong with what they did, you weak, submissive hack, or stop presuming to be a teacher.

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Pointer: Fred

11 thoughts on “NO NO NO Children, Buzzfeed: You May NOT Do This, For It Is Creepy And Unethical

  1. Here’s a good formula for life:

    Did buzzfeed produce it?

    Yes- it’s probably crap, ignore it.
    1a) it was crap! Good call
    1b) it wasn’t crap! Still a good call, someone else has done it better.

    No- feel free to consider looking at it.

  2. As a comment: It’s only generally considered poor form to do something like this. There are, after all, a whole lot of creeps (Buzzfeed’s editorial staff, for instance) who think this sort of thing is perfectly okay.

  3. Having taught high school English for nearly two years, I’ve been wondering what on earth it’s like teaching kids who have smart phones in class. It must be impossible. Do they pay attention to anything other than their little screens? Do they do anything other than text each other constantly? What a nightmare. I suppose they’re banned from class rooms but, to use that horrid phrase that’s so popular these days, “good luck with that.”

  4. Well, when I was in grade school and high school putting up with the usual crap, I quickly learned not to complain when the teachers would simply rebuff the complaint and tell me to either laugh with those who laughed at me or grow a thicker skin. I am guessing these teachers who simply shrug and try to grow a thicker skin are simply products of that generation of non-discipliners. Ethics rot sometimes starts in school when bullies are allowed to get away with a lot of crap and their targets are left with no recourse except maybe to ah, self-help. A bully whose behavior never costs him will keep on doing whatever he can get away with, and that’s where we get our bullying CEOs, local tough guys, and cops who seem to enjoy using the badge as a license to make other people’s lives miserable. A victim whose concerns are pooh-poohed and who can never get any relief is eventually going to get to the point where he can’t take it anymore, and that’s where we get a lot of our suicides and our school and workplace shooters. Then we wonder how we got there. Maybe an ounce of prevention would have prevented a ton of suffering.

    • From what I have seen, most of the anti-bullying programs make the program worse. Bullies do what they do because they can. They either have important parents or they are kids that don’t care if they are suspended, sent to detention, etc. The anti-bullying campaigns make the first type of bully more powerful, because the school will usually take their side and actual punish their victims as the bullies.

      • Yup. Sometimes the only way to a respond to a bully is to break an arm or a head and let the chips fall where they may.

  5. Here is the nightmare scenario. This gets posted online. In order to look cool to their friends, students claim they have slept with that teacher. Word gets around. Teacher is brought in and accused. Frightened student doesn’t dare admit they are lying because they will get punished. Teacher is dismissed, their career over (best case scenario) or ends up in jail and registered as a sex offender for life.

    I suspect that happened at my institution once.

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