More Tebow Ad Ethics: Allred’s Complaint

The much-anticipated Super Bowl ad telling the story of how quarterback Tim Tebow was born because his mother rejected a doctor’s advice to have him aborted for medical reasons is spinning off ethical issues at a dizzying rate.

Some are easily settled, as Ethics Alarms has already noted. There is nothing wrong with a Super Bowl ad raising substantive issues in the middle of beer commercials and tackles, as some have (incredibly) argued. There is nothing unethical about CBS changing its policy regarding issue-oriented commercials.  The fact that the network rejected such ads in the past does not make it hypocritical now. CBS, having ended a blanket prohibition, must now be fair and reasonable in deciding which issue ads to accept. Let’s see how it goes before we cry foul.

And there is nothing “anti-choice” about a woman’s story of how she chose not to abort her son, and is glad she did. It is not even an anti-abortion ad, unless the pro-abortion movement literally believes that it is wrong not to have an abortion. She had a choice, and she made it. The message of the ad does encourage thought about the consequences of having the procedure, which is unequivocally good.

Now, however, Hollywood lawyer and woman’s rights advocate Gloria Allred has suggested that Tebow and his mother are spinning a tale that is inspiring, powerful, and full of baloney, and she has sent CBS a letter of protest. The medical advice Tebow’s mother said she received came while she was doing missionary work in the Philippines, where abortion is and was illegal. Allred finds it difficult to believe that the doctors in the Philippines would have risked criminal charges to advise her to break the law, and has raised other issues as well. She says the ad as she understands it to be ( nobody has seen it but CBS) is misleading, and that the fact that an abortion would have been illegal must be included in the story. Supporters of the Tebow ad say Allred is “swiftboating” Pam Tebow, accusing her of lying without any proof, with the objective of undermining the persuasiveness of her story.

Thus we have a whole new batch of ethics issues:

  • Is Pam Tebow’s story a lie? There is no way to know. She and her son are devoutly religious people, with  strong moral beliefs, and such people are generally reluctant to lie, especially to millions of people. On the other hand, a religious man who believed that stopping abortions trumped ordinary moral codes was just convicted of murdering a doctor to achieve that end. They could be lying, and the incident wouldn’t have to have taken place in the Philippines for them to be distorting it for their social agenda. Everything in the tale could have taken place, or not, in Rhode Island, Nebraska or Wyoming. But it also could have happened, more or less as she has described it, in the Philippines. Would a Pilipino doctor have told her that she needed to terminate the pregnancy, knowing that she could fly home and have the procedure legally? I believe a doctor would have an absolute ethical obligation to do so, if he felt that it was necessary to preserve her health.  There are many ways for a doctor to convey this information without technically breaking a law against “advising” an illegal procedure, and I am certain this has happened and continues to happen. This doesn’t mean that Tim Tebow’s mother is telling the truth, but it doesn’t mean she isn’t, either. There is also a good chance that Allred is misinterpreting Phillippine law (though she is a lawyer in the U.S., she has no more expertise or authority regarding that nation’s laws than you do). See here.
  • Does it matter if the Tebow’s story is a lie? Yes, it matters. An inspirational story that isn’t true may still be inspirational, but it would be irresponsible and dishonest to present it as reality, and as unfair to the Super Bowl audience as to opponents of its message. CBS wouldn’t run the ad (presumably) if it knew or suspected it was a lie, so the very existence of the commercial would be fraudulent. Truth is more powerful than fiction. We should not tolerate disguising fiction as truth no matter how virtuous the objective. When author James Frey’s fake memoir,  A Thousand Little Pieces, was exposed as fiction, Oprah Winfrey (to her undying regret) immediately said that she didn’t see why it mattered, if the story inspired people. Oprah later reversed herself and skewered Frey on her TV show, because she realized she was wrong. It does matter, because people have the right to know that their opinions have been shaped by facts and fair arguments, not manipulated by clever lies.
  • Is Allred “swiftboating” the Tebows? Not exactly. Allred is treating the Tebow ad like she would if it were a legal dispute, with the American public as the jury. She is introducing evidence that casts doubt on the credibility of the Tebows’ story, without disproving it. In some respects, the Swiftboaters’ ads questioning the legitimacy of Sen. John Kerry’s medals for Vietnam valor were worse that what Allred is doing. The U.S. military had investigated the Kerry story and had concluded that he deserved the medals; it was unfair for former servicemen to come forward three decades later and use hearsay and aging recollections in an attempt to undermine a final administrative decision. In other respects, Allred’s innuendo is worse, as she is suggesting dishonesty with no first-hand knowledge of either the principals or the facts. Both Allred and the Swiftboaters had partisan motives for their actions.
  • Is the Tebow ad misleading if it doesn’t reveal that Mrs. Tebow was in a country that prohibited abortions when the situation occurred? No. Why would it be? Allred’s argument on this point doesn’t really make sense. The story is simple: a woman is told that she should terminate her pregnancy for health reasons, doesn’t, survives, and the child grows up to be a star athlete. That’s it. Intended message: that fetus you are considering aborting may grow up to be someone special if you let it. The message is not altered one bit whether the decision not to abort was made because Pam Tebow was afraid of prosecution, wary of the surgery, afraid to fly back the U.S. while pregnant, trying to kill herself with a deadly pregnancy, wanted to spend the money it would cost for an abortion on souvenirs, was following a radical religious agenda, misunderstood what the doctor said or was morally opposed to abortion. Her motives then don’t matter now.  Tim Tebow is throwing passes and making his mom proud, and he was nearly aborted instead. It is unfortunate if that story makes pro-abortion advocates so uncomfortable that they feel they have to attack it.  Misleading, however, it is not.
  • Should Allred’s complaint persuade CBS to pull the ad? No. Unless there is more persuasive evidence that the ad materially misrepresents the truth, CBS may reasonable conclude that the ad is an accurate account of how Tim Tebow came to be. If it is accurate, it is fair. Such an ad does not, despite Allred’s protest, have to be balanced, because it is an ad, with a point of view, like all ads. Just as every ad arguing for energy independence or environmental responsibility doesn’t have to mention facts and studies relied upon by their opponents; just as Marie Osmond can make commercials claiming that she lost 50 pounds on NutriSystem without noting that she was also prancing her pounds away on “Dancing With the Stars,” the Tebows are not obligated to publicize every fact that their opponents think undermines their story.

The conclusion? Gloria Allred is playing issue advocacy hardball, and while it may not be wise, it is within the bounds of ethics. So is the Super Bowl ad she is attacking.

5 thoughts on “More Tebow Ad Ethics: Allred’s Complaint

  1. I agree with everything you said, except for the part where Christians don’t tend to lie. In my experience, they lie no more nor less than non-Christians.

    I, as a pro-choice person, am thrilled that whoever it is that is paying for the ad is wasting however many millions of dollars on telling this story. I don’t think it is going to change many minds in the pro-choice/anti-abortion debate. I am dismayed that Gloria and her ilk are making such a big deal of it. Now even more people will watch.

    As you mentioned, what I WILL be watching for is whether CBS now allows the UCC to buy ads about their views on gay marriage, etc. Definitely staying tuned.

    Good call, ethics alarmist!

  2. Thank YOU for sending me back to re-read it, because I found some typos. I didn’t mention Christians, you know—I just said that religious people were reluctant to lie, which isn’t like saying they don’t; they just feel bad about it afterwards.

    I think the discussion spurred by the ad can be healthy. The reaction of the pro-choice groups has been tone-deaf. Ditto Gloria.

  3. Your politic red flagged the moment you wrote the term “pro abortion.”

    Nobody is pro abortion. Last I checked, most everyone is “pro life”

    Religionists obey the politicos, like Karl Rove, who twist a matter into a narrow perspective in order to polarize Americans and create a cause of action built on intellectual dishonesty that is a rallying cry. In this capacity, the religionist becomes tool.

    What the religionists can’t seem to tolerate is the notion of “pro-choice” and the lyric of the U.S. Constitution, including equality, fairness and the Separation of Church and State.

    No one has any business stepping between a mother and her doctor, including CBS. Focus on the Family is dangerously anti-choice and invasive and they’ve simply joined forces, fairness be damned. CBS was always aware of political activism effect in the past and denied such ads. That they would now turn political-and this is a political hot potato-without any opposing views, is unfair and begs for a revival of the Fairness Doctrine.

    • Sorry, this is intellectually dishonest blather—with all due respect. Pro-Life, like Pro-Choice, is a meaningless term. Nobody’s against choice OR life. Many are against choices that kill other human beings, as they, with quite a bit of logic and scientific support, define them. Pro-Abortion is as accurate a term as I can imagine for those who believe the procedure should be available to all with no limitations or restrictions, with no balancing of rights and consequnces. Those who want to debate the very difficult issues in bumper-sticker terms are welcome to search for better, gentler sounding stickers. I’m not interested.

      There are things that doctors and patients can do that the state has a legitimate justification for controlling. Strong objections to abortion need have no connection to religion whatsoever (it’s called “ethics”) , and the Separation of Church and State says zero about the state adopting positions that may happen to be supported by religious teachings. Nada. Either you don’t know what you’re talking about, or you are intentionally just throwing around irrelevant arguments. Nor could any non-deranged, fair minded person think that a CBS spot doing nothing but telling the story of one mother who chose not to have an abortion and was lucky to live, as well as lucky to have a healthy child, “stepping between a mother and her doctor.” A just plain silly assertion. You didn’t read my post; you just used it to trigger reflex, simple-minded talking points and to start making accusation. (Calling me a “religionist” is one for the books. My Mom will be so relieved. Are the Tebows “religionists”? I’d say so, and so what? That doesn’t invalidate their point of view or their message. Frankly, your rhetoric borders on bigotry) I’m not going to repeat the explanations that you have either ignored or chose not to consider; you can do me the respect of reading before you comment.

      Next comment, by the way, either spare the political ranting (Karl Rove has NOTHING to do with this topic) or it won’t see the light of day. But thanks for visiting.

  4. Why is it all right to sell beer on Super Bowl ads when our country loses billions of dollars a year because of alcoholism? Haven’t seen Gloria Allred take a stand on that.

    Why is it all right to sell “boobs” by the dozen when it sets unrealistic expectations for our young teenage girls’ body image? Haven’t seen old Gloria take a stand on that either, when she’s so “pro-woman.”

    Why is it all right to sell cute Coke ads with polar bears when we all know that the sugar in Coke adds unwanted calories and rots kids’ teeth? Where’s Gloria on this issue?

    But when the subject comes to a mother and her son — a player in the Super Bowl — and their story, all hell breaks loose. Ever watched the Olympics? “Up close and personal” is the name of the game. No one complains, because it never touches on the untouchable — abortion. This is just another “up close and personal” — and if Gloria Allred doesn’t like how “up close and personal” it is, too bad. Old Gloria just picks her issues… and the general welfare of the population be damned. Shame on her.

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