Introduction (March 31, 2023)
When I was preparing for yesterday’s final post about the French family fighting to overcome France’s paternalistic government bureaucrats from inflicting the name “Hades” on their infant son, I considered introducing the tale with Johnny Cash’s famous rendition of Shel Silverstein’s “A Boy Named Sue.” But I suspected that I had used the song before, and sure enough I had, in the post that follows, from six years ago.
The main thrust of the essay is the ethical issue touched on in the Hades story as well as others here through the years: the unethical act of giving children weird names. I was surprised, however, to see the post’s prescient and remarkably currently relevant commentary about the transgender insanity that was then no more than a twinkle in the Woke-Deranged mob’s metaphorical eye.
Wow, I nailed it. (Hence my doppleganger Fredo’s appearance in the clip from the Ethics Alarms clip collection.)Too bad only a small cadre of the ethically enlightened and intellectually curious read this blog: forewarned, maybe the current madness that has teachers encouraging fifth grade girls to cut off their breasts and large swathes of society urging momentarily confused boys to call themselves by plural pronouns and “identify” as “non-binary” could have been avoided, or at least minimized. This is my fault, of course; I’m the one who hasn’t figured out how to be an “influencer,” while 21-year-old Kardashians can. I get my self blackballed by NPR by daring to defend Donald Trump on a flaming progressive’s show.
Fredo.
But I digress—sorry. The quote below that struck me was this one:
This is what happens when you let the nose of a flatulent and rude camel into your tent. Those with gender issues should not be abused, beaten, or discriminated against. Agreed. They should have access to medical treatment connected to their condition. Absolutely. They should be able to openly declare their status without fear of reprisals, and people with compassion, manners and ethics shouldn’t teat them like freaks. Got it.
But they do not have leave to re-make the world in their image, and cry foul if the majority draws reasonable lines and says: No. Behave.
Here is the post, from July 10, 2017:
“It’s up to Searyl to decide how they identify, when they are old enough to develop their own gender identity. I am not going to foreclose that choice based on an arbitrary assignment of gender at birth based on an inspection of their genitals.”
—Statement released by Katy Doty, Canadian non-binary transgender activist and mother of Searyl Atli Doty, upon it’s birth.
2.Katy’s using her just-born child as a political and a political prop. She thus qualifies as a soulless, radical mother who puts her political obsessions over her obligations to her own child, and a great candidate to be an awful parent.
Good luck, Searyl Atli, but I think you are doomed.
3. That name isn’t going to do the kid—can we agree it’s a kid, Katy?—any good either. Giving a child anything but a name that will allow him or her to go through life without a needless and gratuitous handicap nailed to them by parents amusing themselves, grandstanding or turning their offspring into a billboard is a form of child abuse. Being saddled with a name nobody can pronounce—Seerill? See-Ay-rill? See-Ay-RILE? Wait… is this name really an illiterate spelling of Cyril?— or spell will rob anyone of about a thousand hours before they are 60, if they are lucky.
Why would a mother inflict this on a child? Because the mother is a selfish jerk, that’s why.
4. This is grandstanding, narrow-focused virtue-signaling, and worse.
5. Someone, indeed a chorus, should have the guts to tell Katy how annoying she is, as well as unethical.
6. The trans community is apparently sitting up at night trying to figure out ways to look ridiculous and make public nuisances of themselves. This is typical of aggressive minority groups trying to get recognition and power, but it’s still incompetent and irresponsible.
Katy is Canadian, and officials in Canada, who are apparently no more likely to show any backbone than most officials when social justice warriors foaming from the mouth are after them, issued the baby a “health card” that does not specify gender so little Searyl can participate in their socialized health care . Gender Free ID Coalition, a group that crusades against gender identifiers on government documents because it is stereotyping or something sees this as a victory in their effort to make life far more complicated for everyone because it is unfortunately complicated for the gender-confused.
This is what happens when you let the nose of a flatulent and rude camel into your tent. Those with gender issues should not be abused, beaten, or discriminated against. Agreed. They should have access to medical treatment connected to their condition. Absolutely. They should be able to openly declare their status without fear of reprisals, and people with compassion, manners and ethics shouldn’t teat them like freaks. Got it.
But they do not have leave to re-make the world in their image, and cry foul if the majority draws reasonable lines and says: No. Behave.
Pronouns are useful. They have served as well. Sorry they don’t work for you, trans buddy, but you’re just going to have to cope. Columnist Leonard Pitts, a sympathetic sort, stated it well:
[I]n the notion of a genderless humanity we arrive at the proverbial bridge too far. Yes, I know some people are born anatomically neither male nor female. I’m not talking about them. Nor have I any beef with the child born into a male body who feels emotionally estranged from that body and takes steps, whether surgical or cosmetic, to rectify the problem. Good for him. And her.What I have trouble with is the idea that we somehow commit a sin against enlightenment when we identify that baby’s body as male in the first place. What I find problematic is the notion that we should look upon this child with his XY chromosome and a little stub of flesh between his legs that will someday be capable of producing sperm, and pretend we have no idea what he is.
[Irresistible tangent: But all of the Left is obsessed with this kind of attempted self-hypnosis to accept what isn’t true as fact in 2017. Never mind that every study and experience shows that a high minimum wage costs jobs and kills business: it’s good, that all! Never mind that single payer health care is cripplingly expensive: let’s do it! Never mind that Islam is a religion that produces terrorists because it calls on believers to kill people: Muslims have nothing to do with terrorism! And, of course, Mike Brown was shot by a racist cop as the Gentle Giant screamed, “Don’t Shoot!”]
There is another unethical aspect to what Katy is doing. She is forcing a dilemma on an innocent child that he or she does not need, or deserve. The vast, vast number of children are immediately and successfully guided to a perfectly acceptable, standard and secure gender identity that matches their chromosomes, external organs, development and appearance. They have an immediate peer group, and they don’t have to be anxious about, say, what bathroom they use. They don’t have to decide anything. This is healthy. This works.
Katy, who is an anomaly, has concluded, as self-obsessed, self-righteous and arrogant people often do, that her way is the best way and the only desirable way, and that everyone should be like her. Thus she wants to create confusion and uncertainty for her child: she is intentionally creating circumstances calculated to create gender confusion for her own child, with all of its potential attendant consequences, including surgery and psychiatric treatments. It isn’t enough, apparently, that little Searyl Atli is already going to be burdened by a having parent who will not be a helpful role model in deciding how a female or a male acts.
I bet the child will learn how unethical fanatics act, though.
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Pointer: Fred
I had my first laugh-out-loud moment in years – thank you – also, thank you for your excellence and insights
This post and yesterday’s took me to the Google machine to check on something…
By coincidence, or perhaps by divine intervention, today marks the 40th anniversary of the premiere of Christopher Durang’s play Baby with the Bathwater, in which new parents John and Helen cannot decide if their baby is a boy or a girl. It would be impolite and a violation of the child’s privacy to look, after all. They finally name their offspring Daisy (it turns out, of course, that Daisy is actually male). Curiously enough, Daisy ends up having some mental and emotional issues stemming from a series of variations on spectacularly bad parenting. Go figure, huh?
Durang wrote bizarre, irreverent, and often hilarious comedies, often premised on characters’ doing things that no normal human would contemplate, let alone do. What once was regarded as an active (and a little warped) imagination has turned out to be prescient. More problematically, Durang’s play is funny; the real-world manifestations are not.
Alas.
Alas. Or not a lass.
“But they do not have leave to re-make the world in their image.” Truer words was never spoke. But that’s the world we live in. That’s what all these lefties want to do: re-make the world in their image. Nothing short of that will do.
And by the way, the mother should have changed her LAST name to “Dotty.” A Brit and Commonwealth slang term for “mentally irregular” more popular in P.G. Wodehouse’s world than it likely is now.
Inquiring minds are wondering who is the bigger selfish asshole, Lia Thomas or Katy Doty?
How much longer is the delusional radical trans community going to be the tail that wags the dog?
And why is this issue so all-consuming to so many heterosexual or gay or lesbian people, particularly white women? A mystery. We had gay rights, now we have transgender rights. I can’t help wondering what’s up next.
At some point, don’t you run out of marginalized groups?
Nope, it’s not a line, it’s a circle. There is always another splinter group to praise/blame